I’m a big fan of cunnilingus. Who wouldn’t be? Well, okay, I know there are those who have ‘issues’ around it. I’m all sympathy, really. In terms of a physical sensation, though, what’s not to like? I can feel it now (and no, I’m not being licked while I type this — I wish). His tongue… just slightly rough, strong, insistent, dragging oh so fucking slowly along, from perineum, past smoothly shaved labia, circling around its target, easing back and inside me, and then that slow drag again, up, past, fuck, god, yes. Lying back, my legs spread wide, his head pressed firmly against me, reacting to my reactions, knowing exactly how to elicit each yelp, how to make my body arch into the air, how to use his upper arms to keep me anchored while I scream. Fuck. Yeah. I’m a big fan of cunnilingus.
I do have, or I have had my own personal issues, though. Lying back while he gives head? Sure. Perfection. 69? You betcha — although maintaining focus on the task at hand (or at mouth, I guess) is sometimes a challenge when I’m busy losing my mind. Still, I’ve always been self-conscious when it comes to the idea of actually sitting on his face. I don’t know what the hesitation was. I’m not particularly ashamed of my pussy. I think it’s rather pretty, in fact. I don’t think that my ass is unattractive. It’s received more than its share of compliments, really. Perhaps some nasty little internal voice has been assuring me that no one enjoys being sat upon. Or maybe I just secretly believe that I don’t deserve to be in control. I should never be on top.
Mr. Wonderful convinced me otherwise.
He didn’t talk to me about it. He just somehow made me want it. And once I was there, in control, on top, his continually and vigorously moving tongue reassuring me that he wasn’t in fact suffocating — once I was there, control was no longer the issue. I was too busy losing it. My body thrashed about as I focused on grinding my hips into his skull, making that tongue go deeper, feeling that chin press into my clit, even being aware of his nose pushing willingly inside me. His face was a thing that I was using for my pleasure, my own personal ecstasy. And he became my man again, instead of my fucktoy, as I came, and flooded him, and I screamed at him to drink me, damn it, drink me, and his muffled moans proclaimed his own personal ecstasy.
When I began to come down, I remembered to release him; I sat back with my thighs open and glistening, and looked at him, panting, grinning like a proud little boy, his face a mess. And I kissed him.
Yeah. I’m a big fan.



What a coincidence; me too! heh
By: Effortlessly Average on September 3, 2008
at 7:52 pm
it is questionable as to who’s in control. and, really who cares? just take it…or give it.
By: max on September 3, 2008
at 8:53 pm
Ah my favorite. Always pleased to hear of converts. I’ve always thought that position resembles something like my man worshipping me and the pussy gods!
By: Kyra on September 3, 2008
at 9:36 pm
Yes, I have to say I’m a fan of that as well!
By: Riff Dog on September 4, 2008
at 2:49 pm
I hope one of these days I can get past my own hang ups on that particular position. I still haven’t managed to..yet.
By: swingerwife on September 4, 2008
at 3:16 pm
Well, I’ve never done it but now I kinda want to
By: Elle on September 4, 2008
at 5:31 pm
EA — You’re a fan of cunnilingus? Really? I never would have guessed.
Max — I just love losing control… or giving it… or taking it. Those all work for me.
Kyra — There is a lot to be said for being worshipped.
Riff — You too? Hmmm. Wanna come practice?
Swingerwife — You know… hangups in sex are just so useless. I’m gradually learning the pleasures of letting go of all that. So worth it.
Elle — Do it. Really.
By: Marianne on September 4, 2008
at 7:40 pm
Yeahhh…yum…horny now. Thanks.
By: gillette on September 5, 2008
at 3:58 pm
Nothing I like more than making you horny, Gillette.
By: Marianne on September 5, 2008
at 8:40 pm
Yeah, face-sitting is still so hard for me even after doing it several times. I’m always torn between enjoying his tongue in my cunt but worried about being too heavy and hurting him. So far my toppy self overrules my insecure self when we do it — especially as it’s such a turn on for him.
And this post makes me look forward to doing it again in…er…seven weeks.
By: Natty on September 11, 2008
at 1:23 am
It’s all good, as long as the fun self wins out.
By: marianne on September 12, 2008
at 3:24 pm
That position is one of those ones that either works amazingly, or just doesn’t – and it really depends on the people involved.
When I’m comfortable (a pillow supporting my head helps, it’s no fun if I have to strain my neck to reach her clit) I absolutely adore it. Having her on top of me gives me amazing access to all of her pussy and the sensitive and brilliant areas around it, and I love that she can control the pressure by thrusting or grinding or just lowering herself onto my relentless tongue – in fact just thinking about this is making my mouth water a little, it’s almost a Pavlovian reaction! The view is brilliant too, seeing her above me, her shaved pussy exposed to my view and mouth, the curves of her body leading my eye up to her breasts… I want to be doing this right now!
By: Jake on September 13, 2008
at 7:49 pm
Jake — I must say, ‘relentless’ is one of my favourite words… and your description from your point of view (so to speak) is captivating.
By: Marianne on September 14, 2008
at 10:32 am
Here’s a tip for those women who are worried that you’ll suffocate or otherwise cause discomfort to your man if you do this: if he’s not liking it, he’ll tell you!
By: Andrew H on September 18, 2008
at 5:33 pm
Andrew, isn’t it hard for him to talk with a mouthful of pussy?
By: Marianne on September 18, 2008
at 5:42 pm
He’ll find a way.
By: Andrew H on September 19, 2008
at 4:03 pm
I believe you, Andrew. And I’d like to see him try.
By: Marianne on September 19, 2008
at 5:43 pm